So, if we had to take a stab at it we would put money down that you are:
Sending dysfunctional relationship memes to your bffs DMs like there’s no tomorrow.
Downloading bumble and hinge only to delete it rapidly, thinking why did I do this AGAIN.
You bought a cat and went on male detox that has lasted way longer than you intended.
Red flags? Emotionally distant with a hint of fuckboy? Stamp your VIP card and pop the bubbly! You run that club.
Dare we say it? Attracted to the bad boys and blow all the marriage material off.
Your dating history sounds a lot like Taylor Swift's albums.
You pretend you’re cool without labels and doing the casual “ go with the flow” thing, until you're in it and then want more with someone who doesn’t want more. Eek!
Dating inconsistent men that don’t text back in time, hide you, give off weird vibes and are generally shady beaches.
Keep blocking, unblocking to hookup, then blocking again..and can’t tell your friends because you feel all shamey about it.
Sabotage a lot of shit in your life. Your diet. Your relationships. Your time. Get sloppy drunk when you shouldn’t and your life is just one big shit show and you’re the ring- leader.
Your friends no longer get super pumped when you meet a guy because they know he’s probably the catalyst for late night crying sessions over a bottle of wine on their couch.
Not listening to your intuition in the slightest and after every breakup or breakdown, finally admit that you knew better and should have listened to yourself.
“I’m giving up on men, I’m over it” has become your holiday jingle.
You’ve considered Farmers Only and Christian Mingle. ‘Nuff said.
We see you sis. Freaky, right? It’s like we know you. Because, actually, we WERE you.
We’ve swiped our hearts out left and right. We’ve ghosted the good ones, stalked the bad ones, become FBI sleuths to crack the Iphone password codes to hack into phones (not our proudest moments, but damn one time it took 5 months to figure it out so you bet we were gonna use it while we could).
Thousands of IG followers yet still petty enough to look through every single person that’s viewed our stories to see if HE did? Guilty as charged.
yOU CAN STOP KNITTING THE RED FLAGS TOGETHER TO HANG YOURSELF.
We’ve stayed around way too long for the good D, cross checked who they are following on IG to see if there’s a consistent like for like going on, looked through their shit while they’re in the shower, checked their distance in location on Bumble, broke up, went back to them a million times, joined dating sites while still in the relationship to make him jealous…. I mean you name it, we’ve done it.
Here’s the deal babe.
We know just how effed up this whole thing is. We know it’s exhausting. We know you’re fed up. And we KNOW you have the best intentions and heart, but you can’t keep doing this insanity and actually expect something different to happen. You’re stuck. Like Erkle. You’ve fallen and you can’t get back up.
Never fear, Kindra and Jasper are here and we’ve hung up our party heels spend the next eight weeks teaching you how to get your shit together when it comes to your love life. You’re going to learn things about yourself that even your mama doesn’t know.
You’re going to have bigger breakthroughs than Britney did in 2007.
If you desire to
- Reframe your relationship history.
- Reprogram your dating fears.
Radically shift your limiting beliefs around love.
Increase your confidence.
Learn to live in a state of flow.
Know how to become an energetic match for your dream man.
Shift into a state of daily receiving compliments and gifts with ease
Increase your understanding of how the healing of your parent wound changes your relationship trajectory.
Experience energetic shifts just from playing the videos in the background of your life.
THEN YOU CAN’T LET YOURSELF MISS THIS
Spoiler alert: our favorite thing to talk about is men.
We know that may sound crazy for a couple of 30 somethings, but after years of working with thousands of women, we have seen a lot of women not be honest with themselves about what they want. Then feel crazy, greedy, wrong and selfish for wanting what they want.
We know a lot of women who play small, shrink, hide, doubt themselves, cap themselves, and sabotage themselves around their love and relationship potential.
We won't stand for it any longer.
We didn't grow up in healthy families. We didn't always believe that love and vulnerability would become something that was a consistent, fun and reliable part of our life.
We’ve dated the dead-end dudes. We’ve been the terrible girlfriends. We’ve cheated in our avoidance of initiating heartfelt and healthy conversations. We have hurt ourselves and others, countless times, trying to stick things out when they clearly were a terrible fit.
We’ve been heartbroken. We’ve felt despair. We’ve felt stuck and unable to get out. We’ve felt constricted. We have felt boxed in.
We felt like the odds weren't in our favor.
(And we understand a lot of people, had it a lot worse than us. But, these are our stories.)
We changed the role love plays in our lives. We created new belief systems around rejection. We began to understand the purpose of honest communication. We taught ourselves to stop sabotaging our growth and to create an energetic relationship with our intuition to attract the dates we want and co-creating our dreams. We learned to stop pushing away love when it came from men that wasn’t our “type”. We’ve spent the time since increasing our understanding of the vibrations of our own worth, integrity, and desire.
Now, we don't do things half ass. We've chosen (basically as a result of our incredibly stubborn will and continual decision to believe in that there are plenty of good men looking for good women and ditching this mindset that relationships are trash) to combine our colorful pasts and to teach women all over how to stop fucking it up.
Here is what we are a genius at:
Being an energetic match for incredible dates. Holding an incredibly high frequency around honoring our intuition. Deciding we are worthy of more. Calling in our desires. Expecting massive amounts of love to flow in.
Teaching others to do the same.
We are not just good at it; We believe it's why we are alive.
It's never just about relationships.
It's about freedom. It's about opportunity. It's about a decision to see things different, overcome the odds, and change how things work for you.
It's about not having to say no to your desires, because of money, any longer.
Whether you come from money... or like me, don't come from money at all...
... you can change your mind, you can rearrange your energy, you can set new patterns for how money works for you.
If you are preoccupied, worried, frantic, freaked out or fearful about money...
... it's time you Get Off The Hawt Mess Express.
Together we gonna get down with it like dis:
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How it works:
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The eight teaching modules have been recorded for you.
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Receive Access to Module One Beginning August 1st.
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Module Three will be opened to you 7 days after that. Etc.
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